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08/07/25 10:11 AM #189    

Laura Gilbert

I will always rememer Mark as one of the kindest guys in our class; gentle, kind and smiling.  I enjoyed talking with him at the reunions, too, and learning of his vocation as a pastor.  It didn't surprise me.  I am sure that he would be the first to agree with C.S. Lewis that we are spiritual beings having a physical experience, but he will be sorely missed by family and friends because his heartfelt presence made our world a better place.  


08/07/25 02:26 PM #190    

Mark T. Connolly (Connolly)

I also am saddened to hear of Mark's passing.  He truly was a kind soul and a genuinely nice person. I am sure he is enjoying the fruits of his labor here on earth. Rip Mark!!


09/06/25 01:49 PM #191    

Nancy K. Ferris (Hammer)

Here is the link to Dave Holley's obituary.  What a fascinating life he had.

 

https://www.latimes.com/world-nation/story/2024-08-23/david-holley-obit


09/07/25 03:38 PM #192    

Jeffrey A. Craven

So sad to hear of the death of my good friend Dave Holley. Through Boy Scouts, cross country, track, political machinations (as you may or may not recall we conspired to get Patti Leonard elected, first female student council president) my memories are all fond ones and occasional funny ones. Dave always wanted to be in the front of the action and thus no surprise that he was there as a first person observer for the massacre in 1989. Much regret at not having maintained contact but he enriched my life as a Purpke Knight as a Boy Scout friend and learer, and a paradigm of intelligence and insight.  He will continue to be an inspiration as the days and years progress. Sayonara and sweet dreams, good friend..


09/10/25 09:54 AM #193    

 

Bradley K. Sherman


ICE agents in the Park Ave neighborhood spark large-scale protest

https://www.wxxinews.org/local-news/2025-09-09/ice-agents-in-the-park-ave-neighborhood-spark-large-scale-protest


02/03/26 06:19 PM #194    

Dan Goodenow

Classmates,

I've been asked by his family to share the news that our dear friend and classmate, Bob Legge, died January 23, 2026, at his farm in Lyons, NY..  He leaves behind his wife Lisa, sister Diane Legge, children and grand children.

I met Bob in 8th grade when my family moved to Pittsford from Massachusetts.  We became fast friends and have remained friends ever since.  We did many activities together over the many years that included our high school rock band, the PCS track team, skiing, sailing, visiting eachother in college, sharing time at their Lyons farm and him visiting me here in Gloucester, MA.

I plan to add more details to this post about his accomplishments and about the great person he was. I miss him dearly.

Thanks, 

Dan Goodenow


02/04/26 10:01 AM #195    

George F. McGovern

I just saw Jeff Craven's post regarding the passing of Dave Holley.  As Jeff stated, Dave had many attributes but most of all Dave had a deep commitment to things that meant something to him.  For example, he wasn't the best cross country harrier or 2-mile track runner or basketball player.  In track and cross country he consistently did such all 4 years.  In basketball he was the varsity manager for one or two years and surprisingly, his senior year, Mr. Mueller put him on the varsity squad.  And what should happen at the awards banquet our senior year, he wins the scholar athlete award.  Or another thing that Jeff refers to is getting Patti Leonard elected as Student Council President.  At that time I was managing Kris Larsen's campaign to be the VP.  Dave somehow got the bright idea that we should go to Mendon Road Junior High School to solicit students there to vote for our candidates (I don't think anyone else knew they had a vote.).  Based on the results, it probably was the edge that Kris needed to be elected.  And I can't forget playing pickup games of basketball at those crummy basketball hoops with chain nets in the back parking lot on almost a daily basis before track or cross country practice with Dave, Dennis Austin, and Craig Sullivan.  Dave later played on the Oberlin basketball team.  Or Dave told the story after college how he met his future wife.  I think he was in China and somehow he met her and took her out to a movie that was in some foreign language neither knew.  Afterwards they went for a bite.  Since Dave didn't know Japanese and she didn't know Chinese they communicated by written Chinese that was somewhat understandable to her since the two languages have similarities in writing.  I suppose the topper was Dave's valedictorian address at graduation.  He basically chastised the U.S. government and many of the parents in attendance for supporting the Vietnam War effort.  It was an amazing student address that showed his maturity beyond our years.  His commitment against totalitarian regimes and peaceful coexistence continued throughout his work and life.  In summary, he was a most remarkable, thoughtful, caring person who made the world a better place and, for me, made my life much richer.    

 

 

 

patti leonard

 

 


02/04/26 06:02 PM #196    

 

Alice J. (Aj. ) Zissler

In response to Dan Goodenow's post about Bob Legge passing away --- I am so sorry to hear. Our sincere condolences to his family. I remember Bob well as a classmate. It was wonderful to hear about your friendship with him, Dan. Please do write more about Bob's accomplishments and that friendship meaning to you.

 

Best regards,

AJ Zissler


03/02/26 04:07 PM #197    

Dan Goodenow

Bob Legge

About four weeks ago, I posted a message that Bob Legge had died.  Since then, I’ve been able to accept that loss and move toward this message that I hope celebrates his life in a special and meaningful way.

It was in the 8th grade at Mendon Middle School that I first met Bob.  The British Beatle “invasion” had occurred early in the spring of 1964 and many of us wanted to be in a rock band.  My first attempt was in a short-lived group with Danny Dodson, Rick Morenson and Buzz Petsos.  I remember Buzz being a very good drummer with the rest of us just starting out with our instruments.  We played a couple of parties and then Danny and I were invited to “try out” for another band that Bob Legge was putting together.  At that first jamb, I immediately noticed how accomplished Bob was on the drums and how well he could sing. He had a beautiful voice and could mimic the sound and style of many of the popular vocalists of the day.  He could also effortlessly memorize the lyrics to the covers that we learned and as you can imagine, that was a big deal.  After cuts and additions were made, the final configuration of the band was Bob Legge on drums and lead vocals, Dan Kropp on keyboard and trumpet, Greg wolf on bass guitar, Jim Womeldorf on lead guitar, Jon Barker on sound, lights and trumpet, and me on rhythm guitar and some vocals.  As with many of those old bands we practiced wherever people would put up with our noise.  I remember our garage at 14 Falling Creek Road, Greg Wolf’s living room and finally Bob’s basement at his house on Arlington Drive.  The Legge basement became our regular practice venue for 5 years.  Bob was a fantastic and talented drummer and singer.  From 1964 thru 1969, we kept the same guys in the band and ended up learning and performing 93 cover songs ranging from The Byrds, Beatles, Stones, Animals, Blues Magoos, Deep Purple, Mitch Ryder and the Detroit Wheels, Electric Prunes, Kinks, Sam & Dave, Spencer Davis Group, Ventures, Young Rascals, Hendrix and others.  Bob was the creative leader of the band and really kept it all together.  We were all as they say tight like a good band should be and did many other things together.  Bob was a great skier and we’d often head to Bristol Mountain with a few 6-packs of beer for night skiing.  I remember another great ski trip with Bob and Dan Kropp heading out to Aspen to visit his sister Diane and ski.  Many stories about that trip could be told.  I remember I sold my Hagstrom solid body guitar and Bandmaster amp to pay for the plane ticket.  We brought a bunch of Coors beer back with us on the plane.  It was considered a rare treat back then.

In addition to skiing, Bob was a great athlete.  He was on the track team with Dan Kropp and me and was our top pole vaulter and high jumper senior year.  In 1968 Dick Fosbury competed in the Mexico City Olympics and used his “flop“ technique in the high jump to win gold.  Bob was able to learn Fosbury’s backward approach flop technique.  He was the first high jumper in the conference to learn and use the flop approach and used it in competitions.  Having never seen it, competitors and their coaches would gather to watch him jump.  The advantage Bob achieved was that the flop only required about 3 steps at a slower speed where the older front approaches required more speed and about 6 steps. With Bob’s handicap and lack of speed, he had a lot of success with Fosbury’s flop.

Yes, Bob had a handicap.  When he was young, he contracted polio and the disease left him with an inability to place his one heel on the ground while walking or running.  The amazing thing to me was that in addition to being a good high jumper, he was also successful in the pole vault.  Again, with lack of approach speed, he was able to use considerable upper body strength to get up into the air and over the bar.  His vaults were one of my favorite things to watch during our track meets.  Needless to say, he lettered.

That polio condition was rarely ever mentioned by him, and he never complained or ever used it as any kind of excuse.  In spite of the polio, to be a great skier, a fantastic drummer and a track athlete was to be respected and I respected him very much.

In early spring of 1969, the band played our last gig in the PCS small gym after a Basketball game, and we all knew that the group that kept us all grounded was ending and we were off to new lives.  Atter graduation, my family moved to Connecticut, and I stayed behind and lived with the Legge family so I could work that summer on a construction job in Webster.  That summer we kept our friendship strong and then we all went off to different colleges.  I visited him at Wooster College and he to me at Penn State.  He went on to Wisconsin for grad school, and I went off to serve in Philadelphia as a VISTA Volunteer.   We lost touch until the internet brought us back together.  After that we were able to continue periodic get togethers at his farm in Lyons, cottage on Sodas Bay or at my home in Massachusetts and a few class reunions.   We both had a strong interest in sailing and sports.  I brought him to a Boston Bruins game, and we visited PSU for Big Ten hockey games against Wisconsin.  Every time we were with each other, it was as if we had never parted.  Later in life he had picked up playing the mandolin and I was still playing guitar, so we’d share music a few times.  Once we got together at his farm with Greg Wolf and jammed on some tunes I had written.  Being out of practice he had trouble drumming and singing at the same time.  We found that funny in that after all those years in our band, it was his simultaneous drumming and singing that had kept the whole thing going.

Bob was amazing and I haven’t even mentioned his talent in drama.  Not my thing so others can chime in on that aspect of his life.

As I told Lisa recently, Bob never used a cross word or ever complained, or if he did complain it was always with a touch of humor.  It was so wonderful to be in his company, and I will remember our times together forever. 

A special note here that some of you readers might have known Bob as “Boston”.  The name was given to him because we had a music gig coming up and he took a trip to Boson, MA to visit his sister and possible colleges.  We were upset and had to cancel the gig.  Sort of out of fake disgust we ended up just calling him Boston.  The name somehow stuck and he seemed to enjoy the moniker and took it as I suppose, a term of endearment.  I miss him dearly.

Boston:  As good a friend as one can ever have…

 


03/03/26 09:28 AM #198    

Dan Goodenow

I appologise for spelling Rick Mortenson's last name wrong in the previous message.  My fingers are a little fat and miss keys sometimes.


03/03/26 11:57 AM #199    

Ellen S. Schwalenstocker (Schwalenstocker)

I think it was Bob Legge that played the lietenant in the production of South Pacific. I still remember that performance. 

 


03/04/26 12:17 PM #200    

 

Nancy Topham (Mueller)

I barely knew Bob Legge but I worked backstage on South Pacific, and all you who were in it are locked in my memory forever partly due to YOU and partly due to the sheer quantity of times I saw the rehearsals and performances. Anyway The most memorable thing in that show was Bob Legge singing "You've Got to Be Taught...." Its plaintive tune and emotional words which encapsule what I have fought for my whole life. Living in the rural south, I see the current realities a lot, and Bob singing that song is one of the things that provides my context.

03/05/26 10:13 AM #201    

Dan Goodenow

Nancy, 

Thanks for posting your message about Bob's part in South Pacific.  I knew nothing about the musical so I went online and learned a bit about it.  As for racism, After completing college in 1975, I volunteered for VISA and served in the Black and Puerto Rican neighborhoods of North Philadelphia, I completed one year of service and then re-upped for one additional year.  During that time I was jumped and mugged 3 times and also had a knife pulled on me on a subway platform.  White guy with blond hair didn't help.  In spite of those instances,  I think I undrstood  a little about the people I served and their hardships and tribulations and I hope I helped them along the way.  Racism is so stupid.

While serving, I was a young architect in a community design center in the North Philly neighborhoods and I specialized in the design of daycare centers, drug rehab facilities and housing.  I also worked on a community graphics design facility that trained young people in that profession.

Going from Pittsford to North Philly was a big transitiojn for me and a real as they say, eye opener.  I still look back on it fondly. My two years does not match your life long caring but It meant a lot to me.  

BTW, I don't think I knew you back at PCS but you seem like a very nice person.  I'll mention you to Bob's wife Lisa.  Were you in Bob's sister, Diane's class?

Thanks,

Dan


03/05/26 11:23 AM #202    

Lanny Traber (Traber)

I was so sad to hear about Bob Legge. While I wasn't close friends with him in high school I always thought of him as being a great guy. I last saw him at our 55th high school class reunion. I got to visit with him, Dan Kropp and Dan Goodenow for a little bit. Here is a picture of him with the two Dans and myself.   
 

 

 


03/05/26 04:39 PM #203    

Dan Goodenow

Lanny, 

Good to hear from you and I remember you from the last reunion.   That's a great photo of all of us as I must have been caught sucking in my gut instead of letting it hang out.  Bob looks especially well.

You may have been a lot like me in that I didn't have a ton of friends during high school.  I guess partly from moving around a lot in my youth.  There were a few people from the neighborhood, sports teams, church and of course our band.

If I could go back, there would be a lot of things I'd do differently.  Number one would be to try harder at the important things and nuber tow, try harder to make friends.  I suppose many of us would say things like that.

Enjoy each day and feel free to stay in touch.

Thanks,

Dan Goodenow, (Goody)

 


04/04/26 09:58 AM #204    

Dan Goodenow

Regardingmy posy about Bob Legge's recent death, this is a photo of Bob, Greg Wolf and me jamming at Bob's farm in Lyon's NY about 2010.  We had a great time and we got to play a few of the songs that I had written. 

The next photo was taken around our Junior Year.  It shows all or band members with Bob Legge sitting against the tree, Jim Wommeldorf hugging the tree, Greg Wolf leaning on the tree, Dan Kropp standingl looking cool as he aways was and John Barker and me leaning on a tree in the back.  We had changed our band name to the Sound Brewery.

The last photo was during the summer between 8th and 9th grade when we were just starting out.  Kropp didn't have his electric piano yet and was playing the upright and I still had not bought my solid body electric guitar.  We were still the Lastraws. 

A long time ago with lots of good memories.....

 



04/05/26 10:19 AM #205    

 

David 0. Hughes (Hughes)

Dan,

 

These are great pictures.  I had totally forgotten that you all were in a band, even though I knew all of you fairly well. That must have been a thing then.  A few of us tried our hand at a garage band too, but it never left the garage.

I see the notices here as life changes for us all, but am usually not much for chiming in, but these pictures are just so good.  Thanks for sharing.

 

David Hughes


04/07/26 11:20 AM #206    

Dan Goodenow

Dave,

Good to hear from you.  Yes, our band did stay together from the summer between 8th and 9th through the spring of senior year.  We got progressively better at playing and at one point played 3 gigs in one week.  I think our top pay was $250 for a night..Now divide that between 5 guys.  Big bucks.  We did school gyms, a town teen center, church basements and a couple of parties.  We also entered a teen music contest held at the Rochester War Memorial.  We set up and played in what I remember as a basement room of about a 2000 sf. space.  The judges were a bunch of old ladies and all they said when we finished our one song was that it was too loud!  Looking back, I guess that in itself was some kind of a badass band victory.  I remember the eventual winner was to play in the large War Memorial setting upstairs.  That would have been cool in that Hendrix and others played there.

In spite of your broken leg, I clearly remember you from football.  Tobin was our safety or center DB and we were to each side of him.  I find it odd that Phil Schreyer has never, as you say, chimed in on our class site.  I do know that he played football at Susquehana University in PA.  They were Division II at the time and now Division III.

On the personal level, we have 3 grandchildren now, ages 1, 3 and 6.  Two girls and little Adam.  3 years ago our house burned down from an accidental fire started by our 3rd floor tenant.  We had to rebuild the 3 family and and it's taken almost 3 yeras.  During that time I also contracted T Cell Lynphoma, but made it through Chemo and will have been in remission 3 years this coming September.

I'm still in communication with Dan Kropp, (monster linebacker), on a monthly basis.  He and his wife are living in Albuquerque, NM.  He's doing well.  I still find it funny that he retired as school principal.  If they only knoew what a bad boy he was back in HS.  It probally gave him a unique perspective on his student's education..

I hope all is going well with you and yours and wish you all good health and happioness.  Feel free to get back to me.

Goody

 


04/08/26 11:03 AM #207    

 

David 0. Hughes (Hughes)

Wow!  That's a heck of a come back.  Lots of info.

Nancy and I  (no kids) moved to Chicago almost two years ago after around 30 years in Virginia.  Big change. Tom Terry and his wife live in the same building which has been nice.  He and I have become well reaquainted over the last ten years or so which has been very enjoyable. Not sure if this is where we will stay, but we enjoy travelling, and you can go anywhere from here, at least as long as othr places will have us....

 

No broken leg in high school...torn ACL which was worse. It was never really addressed and I started running in the mid 70s and kept that up until around 2014 when I had to have the knee replaced.  Now it is lots of walking and biking and the gym, but no more running. Like you I always have found it a little odd about Phil, but he cam from NJ, I think, and maybe has more of a connection there. I did visit Cyndy Bol (sp?) at Kent State my second year at Allegheny....they dated at Pittsford. I did also visit Tobin at his place on the eastern shore of Maryland a number of years back.  He had a farm, but also designed ships for the Navy.  Interesting combo.

 

Sorry about your house.  That is pretty traumatic.  Also the cancer, but it soulds like you are in a good place with that.  I had a brush with melanoma about eight years ago, but found it very early and took care of it.

 

Good to hear about you.  I do pay some attention to messages here and usually respond.  I enjoyed my time in Pittsford and still get back there fairly regularly....this June, for example. I seem to have better memories of high school than of college; not sure why. Some people really liked it, others not so much.


04/08/26 02:06 PM #208    

Lanny Traber (Traber)

 

Hi Dan, I don't remember was John Barker part of your band?

Lanny

 


04/10/26 10:41 AM #209    

 

Nancy Topham (Mueller)

Fan Goodenow, I was in the class of '69. I was a nerdy bookworm, not one of the Thirdty's crowd, in fact did not even know there was one... Came to Pittsford as a sophomore so was not part of anyone's younger life. Yes, we were very sheltered in Pittsord, I was probably only a little less so, and I was so glad for Mrs. Hamm's efforts to shed some light. I have never experienced violence like you did in Philly but as a rehab counselor whose coworkers and clients were more likely to be people of color than not I have learned to do my part inbteaking down those barriers that could impede our purposes, and to earn trust. Sometimes in the last last 10 years I have felt like I wanted a T-shirt announcing, no I did not vote for him, let's get past that one quickly.b My career wá as a rehab counselor witking with people with disabilities - I bet you worked a lot with accessibility issues as well.

04/14/26 09:08 AM #210    

Dan Goodenow

Dave Hughes, 

Good to hear more about you.  Not a boroken leg, but I remember your crutches.  Funny thing is that I hit a tree while skiing at Wildcat in NH and I got an MCL tear.  Same as you, I couldn't run any longer so my youngest brother, Jerry suggested I give ice hockey a try again.  I joined varoius rec leagues and with the gliding action, I had no pain or discomfort in the knee. While in an over 60 league, I had to give up the hockey in 2019 due to a concussion while on blood thinners.  Center dot faceoff going for the puck along the boards between two guys.  My Doc said no more hockey.  I still miss it terribly.  If you remember, I had another concussion in football during a scrimmage against Canandaigue.  I was running the ball around the left end and was met by two of their players.  No blockers at all.  They put me right on my back and the head hit the ground.I went back to the huddle and din't have a clue as to what I was to do on the next play.  Dennison took me out and gave me smelling salts and that was it for the day. Never saw a doctor back then.

I've been to Chicago once, years ago. Enjoyed the city.  Bob Legge's sister, Diane,lives in Chicago part of the year.  She is a famous Architect there. I got to spend time with her and Bob in Sodus Point during the last reunion.  She is still a wicked active skier and sailor.  Dan Kropp was also with us.  Dan lives in Albuquerque.

As for Phil and Chinthia, I didn't know them well.  I only knew Phil through football.  I do remember running into them late Friday nights at the Arby's while out on dates with Ellen Bass.  We'd be all there on dates and gave each other sheepish smiles because we both knew we were breaking our football pregame curfew. I beleive curfew was 10 pm and we'd roll in to Arby's maybe just before midnight.  What bad boys we were!  :)

Here in Gloucester, MA, things are finally starting to warm up.  I just pruned my grape vines and next the rasberries and then prep the vege garden. After that the boat gets uncovered and preped for a july launch.  I don't drop her in until the water warms up.  Because of the house fire, she hasn't touched the water in 3 seasons.

Hope all is well with you guys and stay healthy.  Seems to be the goal these days...

Dan


04/14/26 09:13 AM #211    

Dan Goodenow

Lanny, 

Good to hear from you.  Yes, Jon Barker was in the band.  He and Dan Kropp played trumpet on a few songs, but his main focus was the sound system and lights.  Also was one of our main drivers on our nights out.  Always had a cool car.  Unlike me with the family Plymouth Fury station wagon!

Be well,

Dan


04/14/26 09:31 AM #212    

Dan Goodenow

Nancy,

Like you, I was late to arrive in Pittsford.  My dad tranferred from Sylvania Electric in Woburn, MA to Xerox in Webster, and thus the move to Pittsford in my 8th grade.  8th grade was terrible. No friends and missing my old buddies back in MA.  I did make the 8th grade basketball team and things were looking better and then I was cut after 3 weeks because they didn't have enough uniforms  It killed me. Heck, I would have bought the uniform to stay on that team.  Later in the spring, the whole guitar and rock band thing started to shape up and I found a group of life long friends.  

Yes, your work with accessibilty is so important.  As an architect, we have accessibility codes that we implement. I recently got first hand experience during and after my chemo. Walking with a walker and always looking for ramps.  I did enjoy the front row seating at concerts and such.  I also recieved a free 1 year membership at the YMCA.

September will be 3 years cancer free, (pending my scan and blood work next week.)

Great to hear from you and feel free to keep writing.

Dan

 


04/15/26 11:30 AM #213    

 

Nancy Topham (Mueller)

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My husband had major cancer surgery, weight loss,and then back in the hospital for pneumonia, in the last 4-5 months. He had 6 weeks of radiation. He's been using a walker since December nnd while I already knew a lot of accessibility issues, experiencing them can be another thing. I wish that the architectural world could come up with ways to make places that are built to be accessible such as nursing homes, retirement communities, etc look more normal while still being accessible. Seems like they all use this plank vinyl that is a wood grain but gray-ish or gray. Very cold. I toured a top line continuing care retirement community and even in those actually rather luxurious very nice duplexes and apartments the flooring is what looked institutional. I am just very glad that they have gotten away from institutional green! Anyhow architects doing amazing job with accessibility and I appreciate that even more than I did before it became personal. When my husband went into hospital for pneumonia he was initially in the emergency department and then in cardiac telemetry and in both places there were no windows at all. I have now heard from nurses and others there is a term, hospital psychosis, where people become so disoriented to place time and person that it makes whatever they came in for much worse, and it is due to having no windows. Now that would be an architectural challenge, to figure out ways to bring natural light into those places! I saw it first hand, my husband had the disorientation and confusion that people get when they have pneumonia and as soon as they moved him into a room with a window I could see him getting better faster. I guess hospital architecture is a field of its own. As you can see I get charged up on disability related topics and can only be grateful that it is due to my profession and not to personal experience other than quite recently - A lot of my clients have to deal with it their whole lives. We do all become quite familiar with the issues as we get older, if we live long enough. I am so glad that you came through to the other end of your cancer journey successfully. We still have a ways to go before life can resume a somewhat normal rhythm again. Maybe retired architects who have experienced some age-related mobility issues should be hired to come back as consultants! I went back to work in my profession, vocational rehab counseling, part time after 12 years of retirement because of major staff shortages. I call it the geezer gig. It's good to find out that my brain still works and that despite white hair, one can still establish a rapport with all ages! Thank you for your thoughtful reply.

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